Significant Dates in October

Friday 1

Be careful today not to take people’s comments personally as Mercury squares Pluto and Mars opposed Chiron. Issues from a week ago may rise again and need your attention. Avoid making impulsive decisions. On the bright side, a good day to focus on health and wellbeing.

Saturday 2

The Moon enters Leo and Venus is sextile with Pluto making it a good day to catch up with those you enjoy spending time with the most and a good day to make those changes you have been planning.

Sunday 3

Don’t be too critical of yourself or others as the Moon enters Virgo today. You may be feeling a desire to be of service to others over the next two days.

Tuesday 5

Moon enters Libra and Mercury and Neptune form a quincunx, making this a day to take care with smaller details. Be careful with your words today.

Wednesday 6

Today answers to your problems may seem to appear out of nowhere as we are greeted by a new Moon in Libra, and Mars is quincunx with Uranus. Try not to react straight away as things become clear to you. You might also have a chance to show the world just how talented you are.

Thursday 7

Venus enters Sagittarius today and the Sun is quincunx with Uranus so expect the unexpected today! Be patient with those around you if they act unpredictably. Thanks to the position of Sagittarius you may have the urge to escape to somewhere far away even if it is just through books or the screen.

Friday 8

Today may hit you with a bang! The Moon enters Scorpio and the Sun is conjunct with Mars. Avoid being angry and impatient as hard as it may be today.

Sunday 10

Communication, communication, communication. Mercury is very busy today as it conjunct with the Sun and with Mars simultaneously. It is a day for big news, and with the Moon entering Sagittarius it is likely to be news you want to hear. Beware of making decisions while taken by excitement.

Tuesday 12

Whenever a planet is in quincunx with Uranus, as Mercury is today, we need to prepare ourselves for unexpected or sudden changes of plans. You may feel restless today. It will pass quickly as the Moon enters Capricorn bringing a little more stability.

Thursday 14

With the Moon entering Aquarius and Venus sextile with Saturn, today is a great day for making big decisions particularly around practical matters. Your answers lie outside of the box.

Friday 15

From the moment you wake up today should feel light and fun. The Sun is in trine with Jupiter making it great day to have fun with your favourite people.

Saturday 16

Trust your intuition today as the Moon enters Pisces.

Sunday 17

Ooooh there’s a LOT happening with planets today that makes this a great day for love, health, and beauty. The Sun squares Pluto, Mercury is in sextile with Venus, Venus is also in trine with Chiron, and Mars is quincunx with Neptune. Just avoid letting those feelings of love and openness lead you to unnecessary fears or worries about your significant other. Everything is good, and today love has the ability to heal.

Monday 18

Mercury retrograde finishes today and the Moon enters Aries. Don’t take anything personally as those around you may make random comments that offend.

Wednesday 20

Again we have another Uranus quincunx, this time with Venus. Remember that unexpected changes, particularly around your love life and what you hold dear, can in fact lead to better outcomes. You can overcome anything. The Moon in Aries will power you through.

Thursday 21

The full Moon in Aries is very powerful as it opposes Mars. Things will move very quickly for you now and you can expect a more peaceful time. The Moon also enters Taurus today.

Friday 22

Mars squares Pluto today adding to that momentum of everything moving forward for you at a rapid rate now. Avoid conflict as you become excited.

Saturday 23

The Sun enters Scorpio today making the next few weeks a passionate time for everybody, no matter what your sign! The Moon enters Gemini and you may find yourself taking comfort in technology and social media more than usual over the next few days.

Monday 25

That Uranus quincunx rears its head again, this time with Mercury. This is positive as it means that you are likely to overcome any misunderstanding that is taking place.

Tuesday 26

You may find yourself focusing on your home and home life over the next couple of days as the Moon enters Cancer.

Wednesday 27

With Venus squaring Neptune and the position of the Moon, you may find yourself questioning just how much you and those close to you are on the same page. Take your time to think before you speak or act.

Thursday 28

The Moon enters Leo, along with other planetary aspects making today and tomorrow fun and interesting. You will get great joy out of the company you keep over these two days.

Saturday 30

The Moon enters Virgo and the Sun forms a square with Saturn, seeing you focus on your responsibilities today. Try to avoid getting swept up in your fears and remember that you are capable.

Sunday 31

Beware of all that passion as Mars enters Scorpio and Venus is semi-sextile with Pluto. An incredible amount of fun can be had today, just don't let it turn into fighting.

Aspects

When we talk about Trines, Sextile, and so forth in astrology, we are talking about the angles that the planets make to each other. These angles have different influences which affect us. Even the aspects that aren’t considered to be so positive are great at forcing things to happen. For example, whenever there is a square between two planets, we know that action is going to take place.

One of the aspects that isn’t mentioned in the table below, yet one that comes into major play during the month of October, is the quincunx. This occurs when two planets are 150 degrees or five houses apart. This is also a difficult aspect and the best way to describe it is to be “stuck between a rock and a hard place”. It is where the two planets just don’t want to merge together so each planet needs to play out simultaneously in its own way. Quincunxes bring changes and adjustments and when they are a strong influence, it is always important to trust your intuition.

Your Month Ahead

Aries (March 21 - April 20)

The first week of October will see you coming into greater harmony with the people that you love and care about the most. This is a peaceful time for you and time when any disagreements can easily be overcome. Unusually for you, you will be more willing to take the backseat and let others take care of you and spoil you. Remember that you deserve it Aries!

The next couple of weeks see your confidence growing and you may feel that the fears that have been plaguing you these last months have no power over you now. The second week of October in particular will give your love life a reality check. You will be forced to face anything that is less than what you want and what you deserve. This is a positive step forward as you set healthy boundaries and claim the life you want.

The end of the month will bring you happiness and success in your work life. You may realise just how much others appreciate you. The full Moon is in your sign on the 21st making this a very powerful day for your love life. Remember to not settle for less. This is your time to manifest what you want. Just avoid any tendency to be manipulative at the end of the month.

Taurus (April 21 - May 21)

For the first three weeks of October pay attention to all of your communications Taurus. Be sure to the read the fine print but don’t take this as a need to panic. The first week of the month is a great time to focus on your health and wellbeing. Take some time out to take care of yourself. The planets are supporting you in doing so.

The middle of the month will see you going through what feels like a transformation. You may find yourself facing things from the past that haven’t been resolved. You will have the strength to overcome what you need to, and especially to let go of what no longer serves you. Believe in yourself at this time more than ever.

The full Moon on the 21st may bring some of your fears to the surface but this won’t last long. As Scorpio enters your sign on the 23rd you will get a huge confidence boost. You will end the month having deeper and darker conversations than usual and you can expect your sex life to get a boost.

Gemini (May 22 - June 21)

As you begin this month remember that just because opportunities are available, doesn’t mean that you have to take them. This is a time to be more selective, as the planets influence you to focus on exactly what you want. You are allowed to be selfish! As you move into the middle of the month don’t be scared to make rules, especially around your love life, and stick to them. Remember, it’s all about you now.

From the 18th onward you can expect a surge of fun with friends. Your friendship sector gets a huge boost with the planetary influences at this time. You can expect positive news around your career and you may be given the opportunity to demand what you want on the work front.

The end of this month is fuelled by sex and fighting. It is unusual for you to let your passions become disruptive for too long. Take a deep breath and step back if you find yourself overwhelmed. Opportunities around your love life will come into play, and just as you did at the start of the month, only go with what is right for you.

Cancer (June 22 - July 23)

October is a lovely month for you Cancer. It brings you peace, self-respect, and more financial stability. Your love life also gets a boost this month. You begin October by really thinking about what you want from a partner. It is a great time to meditate and manifest what you want when it comes to love. As you move into the middle of the month, you will find yourself having more fun with your significant other. If you are single, this is a great time to go on a few dates and let your hair down.

Your confidence peaks around the 20th of October and the full Moon on the 21st makes everything you’ve dreamed of seem like a reality. Now is the time to believe in your dreams. They can come true.

The end of the month is even more so about love and intimacy. You will have the courage to speak your true feelings to the one you love. This is a time of deepening bonds and intense connections. Just beware of any jealousy that creeps into your love life as you and your loved one may feel possessive of each other during these planetary influences.

Leo (July 24 - August 23)

The month is a calm month for you Leo. October sees you uninterested in drama and gossip. In saying that you begin the month having more fun than usual with your favourite people. The first couple of weeks of the month will also see you having fun getting dressed up.

From the second week of October until the full Moon on the 21st you are likely to experience deep and soothing healing. You will be able to see the past clearly and put everything in its place. There will be a sense of finally moving forward with a clear mind and a clear heart.

October comes to a close in a busy way for you Leo. You may find yourself indulging in new, most likely, creative hobbies. You may also have a greater desire to learn new things. Passion in your love life gets a huge boost and there is a lot of satisfaction for you socially. You are likely to feel more loved and appreciated by those around.

Virgo (August 24 - September 23)

Just like your fellow Earth sign Taurus, you need to be extra careful with all your communications for the first three weeks of this month Virgo. The beginning of the month brings you financial blessings without too much effort. If you are thinking of applying for a promotion or asking for a pay rise the planets are supporting you to do so. This is a great time to sit down and write a list of everything you want.

The middle of October sees you standing up for yourself more than usual. You will have the confidence and assertiveness to say what you think rather than letting others get away with constantly doing things to annoy you. This will also find you letting those closest to you know what you need from them. This will go in your favour as the planets are now supporting your happiness.

Don’t let anxieties get the best of you as you find yourself socialising more as the month draws to a close. Also be conscious of keeping jealousy in check. This can be a fun time for you, if you take time out in between the action to rest and meditate in order for you to keep perspective.

Libra (September 24 - October 23)

October is a month of intimacy, fun, and joy in random places and random moments. As the month begins you will find yourself wanting a fresh start in all the areas of your life. This is a great time for you to write down your goals as the planets will help to make them possible. You will also find yourself more honest in your communications with those closest to you. You will have the courage to tell others exactly what you want, and you won’t be scared to walk away from anyone who can’t give it to you.

The middle of the month will see you living life more on your terms. This is an exciting time for you. Your pleasure and leisure zones are the priority now and there is a lot of fun to be had.

The last ten days of October are heavily focused on your love life. You will find yourself communicating more openly with your partner or any prospective partners. This will lead to a lot of satisfaction in your romance sector. The last two days of the month are also great for manifesting more money!

Scorpio (October 24 - November 22)

You begin this month focusing a lot on the best way to move forward. Be patient with yourself as you spend time re-evaluating all the aspects of your life, with your love life in particular. You are committed and loyal so walking away from what doesn’t work for you is not easy. Take the opportunity to step back and see things for what they really are. If you really want to move forward, you need to let some things go. The influence of the planets will help you to this. A financial boost will be a welcome distraction at this time as well.

In order to help you own what you want and go for it, mid October will see you enjoying self expression sexually or/and creatively. These outlets will help you to find your voice. You can expect a huge confidence boost just before the full Moon on the 21st.

As the month draws to a close you may feel more exhausted than usual. Don’t fear this is not a sign of anything bad, but a reminder that it is important and essential for you to rest and take care of yourself. Opportunities to treat yourself are likely to arise, and when they do, take them. It is ok for you to slow down now.

Sagittarius (November 23 - December 20)

Take some time to face your emotions as October begins Sagittarius. The second week of the month is fantastic for your love life, so allow the first week to make sense of your feelings. Allow others to support you and don’t be scared of opening up to them.

Love and fun is your priority as you move into the middle of the month. The heaviness of the first week is far behind you now. Everything will feel light and you will find yourself enjoying the moment instead of worrying about the future. The planets support your independent streak during these weeks. You may also find yourself enjoying the limelight and your sense of humour will be at its finest.

The end of October will see you wanting to move one way or another. It may be your work, your home, a total shift of mindset, or a big adventure. It is also a great time for intimacy and romance, as pleasure dominates this zone in your life. This is an exciting time for you.

Capricorn (December 21- January 20)

Your planetary influences at the beginning of October remind you that it’s ok to rest. This is also a time for you to clear out what you don’t need. If your inbox needs a clean up or there’s a lot of old clothes to get rid of, go for it. Decluttering will feel refreshing and give you the boost you need. Career progression is also likely so taking it easy now is a must.

Just before positive news on the career front hits at the end of the month, love becomes the focus mid October. You may find yourself enjoying a deeper intimacy than usual and you may find yourself more open to a deep and true love. Your judgement and perception is clear at this time so it is safe to let someone else in.

Family life and boundaries will be your priorities in the last week of October. You will want stability in your home life, and this may find you standing up to others and laying down the law. The influence of the planets mean that it is likely that others will listen to you. This is your time to lead.

Aquarius (January 21 - February 19)

You begin this month feeling refreshed Aquarius. Your social life is the focus at this time, and there is a lot of fun to be had with new and exciting people as your world expands. Your friendships will feel more satisfying and intimate, and your wild streak is likely to come out in a big way!

Love will take centre stage mid month for you as you recognise and accept what you really want and really feel. You will feel more open to love and this is a wonderful time for romance. You will find it easy to talk about your feelings.

The end of October will see things going to the next level for you. Conversations will take quick and meaningful turns. Resist the urge to pull away and remember that you deserve the love you are receiving. Jealousy may rear its head. Avoid any tendencies to stalk, obsess, and worry about your love interests. This will pass, and all is well.

Pisces (February 21 - March 20)

This is a great month for you Pisces. Four different planets go into a direct motion this month making everything easier, particularly communication. It is an intimate beginning to October and your love zone is full of blessings. Just remember that you deserve the love that you are receiving, so don’t listen to those voices of insecurity. The love you are feeling is here to stay.

The middle of the month will bring you many random moments of joy. You will feel appreciated and you will find yourself appreciating the world around you. There will be a feeling of life flowing easier.

Financial blessings come your way as October comes to an end. Allow your creativity to flow as your brilliant ideas at this time will prove to be fruitful. Your confidence is given a huge boost, and you will be recognised for how amazing you are. Enjoy the limelight… you earned it!

Crystals For Your Star Sign

There are many contradicting suggestions as to what crystals are best for your star sign. The truth is that all of the suggestions are right. Below is a chart of the crystals that I feel are best for each sign and the ones that I personally use for each sign in healing and empowerment work.

Remember that with crystals the right one for you is the one you are drawn to. Don’t worry too much about reading into the meaning of the crystals until after the one that attracts you gets your attention. After you explore its properties you will be surprised at how perfect it is for you. The best way to pick the most powerful crystal for you is intuitively.

SATURN

Your Greatest Challenge

I believe that if you really want to know who someone is, look to their Saturn!

Saturn was named after the Roman god of agriculture and wealth. It is the ruler of the sign Capricorn and it brings meaning and structure to our lives. Saturn will highlight the greatest challenge in your life and will also give you insight into how to overcome it. It highlights the limitations and restrictions in your life. It reminds us of our responsibilities and commitments.

(There are many websites and apps where you can get your natal chart for free or figure out your Saturn sign. If you have any trouble finding yours please contact me at marykinginstitute@outlook.com)

To learn more about your greatest challenge, read below.

Saturn in Aries

You are a natural born hero and leader even though you may not feel this way at all. You probably resisted opportunities to take charge in your younger years. Even though others are quick to follow and admire you, you secretly lack faith in yourself. As much as you desire to rule and take charge you may have the feeling that you cannot win no matter what. This can play out in two ways. It can slow down your impulsive, impatient, and headstrong behaviour, or it can make you overly dominant or controlling as you try to make sense of your inner insecurity. You have incredible courage, although you do fear standing up for yourself.

Do take risks.

Do pick your battles.

Do lead with fairness.

Don’t hide.

Don’t avoid.

Don’t shy away from a challenge.

Saturn in Taurus

You are a beautiful person of substance, although you are prone to feeling rejection. The greatest rejection you feel is that which is based on your material possessions, your money, your social class, and your taste. This can make you overly concerned with maintaining your wealth and status. You desire to make money and be financially stable more than most. Those with a Saturn in Taurus often get great joy from being in nature or in the garden. This placement can also lead to one becoming reclusive.

Do beautify your body.

Do spend money on yourself.

Do seek serenity.

Don’t ignore your home decor.

Don’t let your bank account go to zero.

Don’t stave yourself.

Saturn in Gemini

Gemini rules words, so when your Saturn is in Gemini, you may literally be afraid to speak, and to show the real you to family and friends. You may express the opinions of others as your own. You were likely to be a very quiet child and could have possibly had a speech impediment. In truth, you are poet with words unlike any other. Your challenge is to recognise this within yourself and overcome your fears. Thinking can make you tired and being too social can drain you.

Do send letters.

Do write a book.

Do two or more things at once.

Don’t clam up.

Don’t hide your true thoughts.

Don’t skip school.

Saturn in Cancer

The expression of emotion that is natural to Cancer is limited by Saturn. This influence will make it difficult to express vulnerability, attachment, and emotional openness. You keep your feelings hidden and have a tendency to shut others out. Those with Saturn in Cancer find it hard to face their emotional needs and find it even harder to return the love and bonding they crave. You have great inner strength, are incredibly tough, and very dependable. You can be brutally honest. Your challenge is to soften and nurture yourself and accept the love you deserve and secretly crave.

Do heal your inner child.

Do learn about self love.

Do nurture yourself.

Don’t punish yourself.

Don’t punish others.

Don’t be alone.

Saturn in Leo

With Saturn in Leo you will shun the spotlight, even though you may desire to be on stage, be adored, or see your name in lights. Your challenge is to rise above this and allow your talents to shine for the world. People with Saturn in Leo are shy and timid about their gifts. You are very generous and you allow others the freedom to be who they are. You are very humble, maybe too humble.

Do stand out.

Do share your gifts.

Do toot your own horn.

Don’t hide your face.

Don’t refuse to shine.

Don’t deny your dreams.

Saturn in Virgo

You may resist organisation and order or just be bad at it. Saturn instills fear and self doubt making you feel not good enough, and not perfect enough, so you quite often don’t even try. Even if something is good, for you it may never be good enough. You are very compassionate and you give people the benefit of the doubt. You are generous and you give what you have, but you must learn boundaries around your body, your time, and your energy.

Do have a job.

Do get that mysterious ache checkout out.

Do have a schedule.

Don’t overindulge in drink or drugs.

Don't be late.

Don’t dismiss the details.

Saturn in Libra

Libra loves love, marriage, and balance, meaning that those with Saturn in this planet often avoid marriage or other partnerships. Even when they are in them, they struggle to completely open themselves to the union. It is important for those with this placement to not avoid people and shy away from society. If your Saturn is is Libra you have a very independent spirit and act is if you don’t care what people think, when in fact it is quite the opposite. You are generally scared of people and appear closed off and critical.

Do make art.

Do tend to your appearance.

Do cultivate relationships of all kinds.

Don’t be a lone wolf.

Don’t burn bridges.

Don’t run away.

Saturn in Scorpio

With Saturn in Scorpio you fear the deep, dark, the private, the intimate, and the frightening. You feel more comfortable living on the surface and indulging in material things while ignoring the spiritual. You can see things clearly and have an incredible psychic ability, although you may struggle to commit to it. You are terrified of your own darker impulses and those of others, although fundamentally this is what you must explore.

Do feel your feelings.

Do empathise with others.

Do learn Reiki or other ways to heal.

Don’t abandon.

Don’t take advantage.

Don’t keep score.

Saturn in Sagittarius

You may find it harder to see the bigger picture with this placement, and focus more on what is right in front of you and the short term. The usual optimism of Sagittarius is crushed by Saturn making everything seem like doom and gloom. Your lust for life my be low with little desire for adventure. This makes you reliable and dependable, although you must learn to broaden your horizons and seek experience. Learning to play and trusting more rather than worrying are your biggest challenges.

Do move your body.

Do buy a ticket.

Do spin the big wheel.

Don’t mope.

Don’t rage.

Don’t lie down and give up.

Saturn in Capricorn

With this placement you have a tendency to worry and dwell on your emotions. Work is important to you and you desire to be the boss but need to worry less about what others think. You are nurturing and fierce protective of those you love, although you have a tendency to confuse being the boss with being bossy, and can be known to push others too hard. You also have a tendency to give until you have nothing else left, so it is important to learn to conserve your energy.

Do save for a rainy day.

Do leave home.

Do act your age.

Don’t mope.

Don’t let your emotions boss you around.

Don’t avoid the mountain.

Saturn in Aquarius

You may have a tendency to be antisocial. You have a tendency to be private and quiet and it is likely that you were bullied in your younger years. Your challenge is to not be afraid of what makes you unique. You are a genius even though you may not feel it. You are loyal and steadfast, but you must not allow yourself to stay in a “safe space” and branch out into the world. Be proud that you are not like everyone else.

Do set the trends.

Do be you.

Do think outside the box.

Don’t follow fashion.

Don’t stay at home.

Don’t fear your wild mind.

Saturn in Pisces

With Saturn in Pisces your challenge is to learn to flow. You want everything to be perfect, defined, and clear. The chaos of life is very uncomfortable for you. You have a critical mind and you are an intellectual powerhouse although you need to let your intuition have a say as well. You resist the emotional waves that are normal to feel. The need to make sense of everything on an intellectual level limits your natural psychic talent.

Do play with tarot or oracle cards.

Do give money away.

Do feel your feelings.

Don’t fault find.

Don’t wait for confirmation.

Don’t insist on certainty.